A Family Tradition
UF College of Nursing graduates become part of a family of dedicated and proud Gator Nurses.
U niversity of Florida College of Nursing graduates become part of a family of dedicated and proud Gator Nurses. But for some, those familial bonds are much closer.
Mothers, daughters, and sisters have shared the legacy of a Gator Nursing degree. This year, we share a few of their stories.
Mother and Daughter
On Aug. 9, Anastasia Albanese-O’Neill (BSN 2008, MSN 2013, PhD 2014), a triple UF Gator Nurse, will get the rare honor of pinning her daughter, Cassidy O’Neill, as she also graduates as a Gator Nurse.
But the story begins when Cassidy was just 5 years old and overheard her mother on the phone urging a friend to join a juvenile diabetes walk. Diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes at just 16 months old, Cassidy had already endured years of daily insulin injections and frequent blood sugar checks.
Anastasia, a marketing executive at the time, continued trying to convince her friend to join the diabetes walk asking, “What are you going to do to find a cure for diabetes?”
“As Cassidy was getting out of the car to go to kindergarten, she asked me, ‘What are you going to do, mommy?’” said Anastasia.
The question shook Anastasia. She pulled into a parking lot to reexamine everything. It was when she decided to enter health care and try to make a difference.
In 2008, she graduated from the UF Accelerated Bachelor of Science in Nursing program. The 15-month program is open to those already holding a bachelor’s degree. A master’s followed in 2013, and a PhD in 2014.
Anastasia has worked with patients, participated in research, was a UF faculty member, and now works for a global Type 1 diabetes research and advocacy organization.
Cassidy had no interest in following in her mother’s footsteps despite having inspired them. But she had her own “Aha!” moment halfway through her women’s studies and political science classes at UF.
“If you had told me in my freshman year of college, ‘Five years from now you’re going to be graduating from the nursing program at UF,’ I would have said, ‘No way!’ I would have told you I’d be in law school,” she said.
This time, it was mom’s turn to inspire her daughter.
“Seeing what she’s done. I’m just so proud of her. She inspires me so much. I was raised in a home where they instilled in me to do something to make a difference and not just work a job,” Cassidy said. “It took me some time, but I finally decided that working with diabetes patients, pediatric diabetes patients, is something I want to do and something where I can make a tangible difference.”
Cassidy also plans on attending graduate school.
“I love being face-to-face with people, but I am also drawn to the research and clinical advancement side of things. I want to be able to do that as well,” she said.
She hopes to do her graduate work at UF.
“You can tell the faculty want us to have the best level of education. We can see it from interactions we have had with students who have studied in other places. It really does feel like another level here. I’ve learned what it means to be a good nurse. Not just the technical side of things, but the compassionate person-centered care. It’s rigorous, but I wouldn’t have wanted to get my nursing degree from anyplace else,” Cassidy said.
The two cannot wait for the pinning ceremony to share the rare honor of having a mother Gator Nurse pin a daughter Gator Nurse. The chance arose because Anastasia is a College of Nursing Alumni Council member. The council hosts the pinning ceremonies, and members historically pin the graduates.
“It is such a great honor. I know we’re going to both be blubbering. We’re a very emotional family,” Anastasia said.
Seeing Double
Allison and Graison Davis started life sharing an amniotic sac and placenta. Ever since, the identical twins have mostly shared everything else, including a love of nursing.
In May, both graduated from the College of Nursing and embarked on their careers together.
“We have signed a lease for an apartment here in Gainesville. We’ll both be working at Shands,” said Allison.
They would not have it any other way.
“There has been hardly a difference between the girls. Personality, friends, and grades are all similar. They like the same things and have shared everything,” said their mother, Carla Davis.
There are differences. Allison is a bit more outgoing, and Graison has just a few more freckles across her cheeks, but otherwise, they are identical, even down to their mannerisms. They embrace their similarities, as well as the special bond they share. Even more unique, the sisters have a fraternal triplet, a brother named Ellis, who studies political science at Valdosta State University.
“We are all close, probably more than normal siblings, but (us two) have always been super close. You never have to go through anything alone,” Allison said.
“Built-in best friends,” Graison finished.
Known as monochorionic-monoamniotic or “mo-mo” twins, they make up less than 1% of U.S. twin pregnancies.
Sometimes, the sisters don’t have to speak to be on the same page.
They never discussed careers. As children, they both wanted to be veterinarians. Then, in high school, they decided, almost as one, to go into nursing. Now, they both want to be operating room nurses.
“We never really talk about it. We like the same things,” Graison said.
Carla said growing up, the girls even wanted the same gifts.
“We had people tell us to separate them more, but there wasn’t any harm being done. If one was controlling the other or if it was harming them in some way, then sure, but that was never a problem. They would fight like regular siblings, but they never wanted to be apart,” she said.
The twins settled on OR nursing thanks to the opportunities they had during their education.
“We did an honors rotation in the OR at Shands and loved it. We were able to see how nurses help patients just before and after surgery,” Allison said.
Graison recalls one case where a surgery team focused on the procedure was unaware of the patient’s emotional state. It was the OR nurse offering comfort and support.
“You could tell he was really scared. His eyes kept darting back to the nurse, and the nurse kept telling him everything was going to be OK,” she said.
Growing up in St. Marys, Georgia, just north of Jacksonville, most of the Davis family were Gator fans. Dad, Michael, is a UF mechanical engineering graduate. Carla, who graduated from Florida State University, long ago ceded the family loyalty, though she cheers for FSU during rivalry games.
“We grew up going to Gator games our whole lives. So, for us, this was college. That was always the dream to come here,” Allison said.
While they applied and were accepted at other universities, they held out until they heard back from UF.
“We wanted to be nurses that graduated from UF. We love the college. It’s the best nursing school in the state, so how can you give up on the dream of going here,” she said.
Carla’s biggest fear was for one twin to get in and not the other.
“Their grades were so close, but you never know. I know it’s hard to get into UF. We were so blessed that not only did they get into UF, but they also both got into the nursing school,” she said.
College was the first time the twins did not share a room, though they did live together. They always looked out for one another.
When Allison made friends early on in college, her biggest worry was that they also liked Graison. They did. They are so much alike that they cannot help but get along.
They even got along in the womb. One of the complications of “mo-mo” twins is twin transfusion syndrome, where one twin gets the majority of the nutrients from the shared placenta. But Allison and Graison never had an issue, though they were delivered early at 32 weeks.
“One weighed 4 pounds, 7 ounces, and the other was 4 pounds, 8 ounces,” said Carla, who even fought to have the babies placed in the same incubator while in the neonatal intensive care unit.
Twenty-one years later, they have no interest in being apart for the foreseeable future.
“Probably until one of us gets married. That will probably be the great divide,” Allison said, though they agree their romantic interests need to get along with the other twin.
One thing they never did, however, was try to trick their teachers.
“We’ve been super rule followers. We’ve been more afraid of getting caught than tricking our teachers,” Allison said.
“It would have worked, though,” Graison added.
“They have enough trouble telling us apart without us trying to trick them,” Allison finished.
Three Sisters
As a girl, Sarah Baltes remembers playing with medical equipment in the UF College of Nursing simulation lab during family visits to her two older sisters.
Baltes joined her sisters as a fellow Gator Nurse graduate in May and made it a trifecta for the family from Stuart.
Jenna Van Rhyn (Gallas), who graduated in 2017, is excited to welcome her little sister into nursing.
“It’s really special. UF has been a big part of all of our lives. We have shared similar memories. We have walked in the same footsteps. We are all passionate about the profession. It’s great that we all share that,” said Jenna, now a nurse practitioner at the Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa.
But Jordan Smith (Gallas) started the trend after graduating in 2014.
“It’s cool that they both also followed suit. Jenna was kind of on the fence about nursing at first. I may have helped convince her a little. Sarah has seen how much we have loved nursing, and it inspired her,” said Jordan, now a nurse anesthetist at St. Anthony’s Hospital in St. Petersburg.
Sarah said her sisters, who are 10 and eight years older, greatly influenced her.
“I decided I wanted to be a nurse when I was 12,” she said. “I remember hearing them talk about what they had seen and done. It fascinated me. Even before my sisters became nurses, I was always fascinated by the medical field. As a little girl, when I went to the doctor to get shots, I always asked questions.”
Like her family, Sarah grew up a Gator fan, and once she decided to become a nurse, there could be no other college but UF.
“Sarah worked hard to get into UF. They all did. I am super proud of them all. They learned hard work, and they learned to give back. They are just great human beings. I think that’s awesome,” said Kristen Baltes, the girls’ mother.
Sarah recently accepted a position at UF Health Shands in the Thoracic & Lung Transplant Intensive Care Unit.
“That’s where I’ll be as a night shift RN,” she said. “I did a clinical rotation in the ICU, and I absolutely loved the culture there and loved the patients.”
She is also preparing to transition from UF student to Gainesville resident, but she is ready.
“Right now, I live in sorority row. I’ve been a student here for four years. The transition will be a little weird,” she said. “There’s going to be some adjustment. I got to figure out where the locals hang out.”
Sarah wants to specialize, like her sisters, but not yet.
“I want to take a break from school right now and just enjoy being an RN for a while before I decide what to do,” she said.
Her sisters say they will help with advice when the time comes, but now, they can’t wait to shop for work supplies.
“We need to get her some nursing things, scrubs and jackets. She can graduate from her nursing school scrubs and get her own things,” Jenna said. “It’s all very cool.”